On the last 10th of August 2007, our beloved fren, Syarifah Sakinah Syed Alias aka Kiena, telah selamat diijabkabulkan dengan husbandnya, Po-G (tak sure name penuh dia apa, tp rasanya Mohd. Fauzi kot n sebenarnyer nielah first time tgk Po-G).. Hehee at last..one of us (geng underdesk masa di smakl) break de poll. Shes de first among 8 of us whos getting married. Cool!
Nways, i took an off frm work dat day. Purposely for attending de event. Quite easy to reach de place, Majlis Wilayah yg kat Jln Duta tuh frm home. Upon arriving, couldnt find de bride but thanks to her brother, Kamil (huhu hes big already thou, well, when we were form 4 or 5, hes onli form 1 or 2 kot ;p) who showed me de right venue. Jenuh juga mencari, mane laa cik Kiena nih, nasib baik jumpe gak.
Akad nikah dijalankan selepas Asar di Dewan Pernikahan Masjid Wilayah Persekutuan. Well, it was a very nice place. Beautiful actually. Dengan berwalikan ayah Kiena, with onli one lafaz(congrats aa kat Po-G), Kiena dah jadi isteri Po-G dengan sahnya 
The kenduri held at Dewan Muslimah after magrib prayer. All ma frens (underdesk 98′) were there. Together with Ayu, nazura, cipah, emmy, ama, nik, ema; kami memenuhkan meja tetamu.
so who’zz next??
ha ha ha, personally, i believed Nazura is de one who will be the next
but if we look into our prediction from EACH of us (dat we made, whereback in 98′ - many THANKS to Emmy sbb masih menyimpan khazanah lama kami itiew, kalo tak dah kureng ingat dah masing2 punyer prediction sape yg kawen dulu) here i share with u guys de stuffs:
sangat klakar actually!
Emmy’s:
1. Kiena 2. Mas 3. Ema 4. Nik 5. Cipah
6. Nazura 7. Shamam 8. Emmy
Kiena’s:
1. Mas 2. Cipah 3. Nik 4. Kiena 5. Nazura
6. Emmy 7. Shamam 8. Ema
Nazura’s:
1. Emmy 2. Shamam 3. Ema 4. Nik 5. Mas
6. Kiena 7. Cipah 8. Nazura
Ayu’s a.k.a Shamam:
1. Nik 2. Cipah 3. Mas 4. Kiena 5. Nazura
6. Ema 7. Shamam 8. Emmy
Nik’s:
1. Mas 2. Kiena 3. Nazura 4. Emmy 5. Cipah
6.Nik 7. Ema 8. Ayu
Mas’s (my prediction lol):
1. Cipah 2. Nik 3. Mas 4. Kiena 5. Emmy
6.Nazura 7. Ayu 8. Ema
Ema’s:
1. Nik 2. Mas 3. Cipah 4. Kiena 5. Emmy
6.Nazura 7. Ayu 8. Ema
Cipah’s:
1. Nik 2. Mas 3. Kiena 4. Cipah 5. Ema
6.Nazura 7. Emmy 8. Shamam
here’s de note,where we wrote our verdiction!
hehheheheh, we wait n see who’s de sole winner of the game then ;p
Love you all!
n to Kiena N Po-G( if he read dis page as well),
heres r some tips;
Ten ways to achieve lasting love:
Since marital love is prone to sickness and even death, it is imperative for couples to constantly work to revitalize and preserve it.
Husbands and wives must do the following:
1. They have to get in the habit of saying things that are positive, like offering compliments and like making little prayers for each other.
A husband could say to his wife: “If I were sent back to the days of my youth, I would not choose for a wife anyone besides you.” Of course, the wife can easily say something similar to her husband.
Affectionate words have an effect, especially on women. They have, indeed, often been the weapons used by unscrupulous men to gain access to what is not theirs.
Sweet words arouse a woman’s heart. A husband should take care to say them to his wife before someone else does.
2. Husbands and wives have to get into the habit of doing those little things that mean so much. If a man comes home to find his wife asleep, he can cover her and tuck her into bed.
A husband can give his wife a call from work just to say hello and to let her know that he is thinking about her.
If a wife finds that her husband has fallen asleep, she can give him a little kiss on the forehead, even if she thinks that he will not be aware of it. Indeed, on some level his senses are working even though he is asleep and he may very well be aware of it.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) emphasized the value of these little things, “…even the morsel of food that you place in your wife’s mouth…” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim]
It may very well be that the Prophet (peace be upon him) was alluding to the expenditure of a man for his wife’s needs. Nonetheless, the Prophet (peace be upon him) chose to express it in the way he did for a reason. Most importantly, this is the way the Prophet peace be upon him) conducted himself with his family.
This type of behavior is governed by the tastes of the people involved. It may take some getting used to, but it really does not take a lot of effort.
A person who is not accustomed to such things may feel embarrassed just hearing about them and may prefer to leave matters the way they are rather than try to change his behavior and do things that he might see as ridiculous.
Still, we must be willing introduce new habits into our lives if we do not want our problems to go on forever.
3. The husband and wife must set aside time to talk to each other. They should talk about the past; reminisce about the good times. Talking about them keeps them fresh in our minds as if they had happened only yesterday. They should talk about the future and share their hopes and their plans. They should also talk about the present, both the good and bad of it, and discuss different ways to solve their problems.
4. Keeping close physical contact is good for the relationship. This is not just for times of intimacy, but at all times, like when sitting in the lounge or walking down the street. This is regardless of the fact that there are still men in our society who are ashamed to have people see them walking in public with their wives at their sides.
5. Emotional support should be guaranteed whenever it is required. When the wife is pregnant or on her monthly period, she may need her husband to lend her a little moral support. He should take her mental state into consideration. Medical experts attest to the fact that when women go through pregnancy, menstruation, or postpartum bleeding, they suffer from psychological stress that can aversely affect their behavior. It is at times like these that a woman needs her husband’s support. She needs him to let her know how much she means to him and how much he needs her in his life.
Likewise, the husband might fall ill or come under a lot of difficulties. The wife must take these things into consideration. If people want their relationship to last, they must let each other feel that support.
6. There have to be some material expressions of love. Gifts should be given, sometimes without there being any occasion for it, since a pleasant surprise is always welcome. A good gift is one that expresses feelings of affection. It does not have to be expensive, but it has to be appropriate for the other’s tastes and personality; something that will be cherished.
7. The husband and wife have to learn how to be more tolerant of each other and overlook one another’s shortcomings. It should become a habit to forget about the little mistakes of daily life and not even bring them up. Silence in these trivialities is a sign of noble character.
A woman said to `آ’ishah: “When my husband comes home, he becomes like a cat. When he goes out, he becomes like a lion. He does not ask about what might have happened.” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim]
Ibn Hajar explains her words as follows:
They might mean that he is very generous and tolerant. He does not make a big fuss about what goes missing of his wealth. If he brings something for the house, he does not enquire about it later on. He does not make an issue of the shortcomings that he might see at home but instead is clement and tolerant.
It is wrong to go overboard in considering the faults of others but when it comes to ourselves, keep a running account of all our good qualities.
There is a tradition that goes: “One of you sees the dust in his brother’s eyes and forgets about the dirt in his own.”
8. A husband and wife must come to an understanding when it comes to matters of mutual concern, like the raising of children, work, travel, expenses, and problems that might pose a threat to the marital relationship.
9. Husbands and wives need to do things to liven up their relationship. Each one of them can read a book or listen to a cassette that might give them some ideas on how they can revitalize their marital life and bring more meaning to it. They can vary their habits when it comes to relaxing together, dining, taking refreshments, decorating their home, and in relating to each other both openly and intimately. These are the things that keep up the excitement and interest in a relationship.
10. The relationship must be protected from negative influences that can harm it. One of the worst of these is the habit of comparing one’s spouse to others. Many men tend to compare their wives to those of other men. Some even compare them with the faces they see in magazines and on television. Women also compare their husbands with other women’s husbands in things like wealth, looks, and how many times he takes her out. All of this makes people feel bad and insufficient and it can ruin the marital relationship.
If we must compare ourselves to others, we should do so with those who have less going for them than ourselves. Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) said: “Look towards those who are beneath you and do not look towards those who are above you. This is better so that you do not belittle Allah’s blessings.” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim]
We must accustom ourselves to living in the real world and to finding contentment in what Allah has decreed for us. We should not look longingly at what others have been given. Whatever little that we have will be a lot if we utilize it well.
It is quite possible that many who speak about their marital bliss and go on boasting about their husbands and wives are untruthful in what they say. They just like to brag.
The grass often does seem greener on the other side, but only because we are not looking at it up close…
ALL N ALL, LOVE YOU!
